Do’s and Don’ts of child advocacy
- Recognize that you make a difference – to children and youth, and to their families.
- Be well prepared as an advocate – map out your key messages.
- Be clear about what you’d like to happen, what action you’d like taken.
- Be patient and persistent. Keep in mind that change doesn’t happen overnight.
- Create and cultivate relationships with opinion leaders and decision-makers.
- Whenever possible, work with others – including people from other sectors.
- Put a human face to your issue by sharing your stories.
- Be positive; adversarial relationships rarely result in positive change.
- Always be sure of your facts; you want to be seen as a credible “source” of children’s health information.
- Stick to issues that correspond to your experience and expertise.
- Take the time to thank those who have listened to you, or helped you advance your issue.
- Be realistic. Remember change is about compromise.
- Invest a lot of time and energy in something that you don’t have strong feelings about; you’ll be more effective if you really believe in your issue.
- Bite off more than you can chew. If you only have time for a phone call, then that’s what you can do.
- Assume that your audience knows the issue as well as you do; explain, simplify, and go over the basics (several times, if necessary).
- Use jargon, technical terms or acronyms (unless you’re certain you’ll be understood).
- Criticize and complain – negativity will turn off the people who have power or influence to make change.
- Underestimate public officials. With very rare exceptions, they are intelligent and want to do the right thing.
- Leave an influential person’s office without leaving behind your business card.